“Are You Addicted To Relationship Drama?”
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100 Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend
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> >Have you considered making a list of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend? Just making such a list can shed light on your relationship. You probably will start to delve into what you want to know about him, but never really thought to ask. You will also think of questions that are pretty zany. Still, making a list of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend can be helpful in furthering your relationship.
>Remember that guys don8217;t like to 8220;chat8221; as much as we gals do. So, don8217;t be annoyed if he doesn8217;t want to answer all 100 in one sitting. But asking 4 or 5 on each date can elicit the kinds of responses you want. Alternatively, send him one question by email or text each day and let him respond that way.
>What should be on your list of 100 questions to ask your boyfriend? One of the primary issues is his background. Asking questions like where his parents met, when his ancestors came to the United States, his parents8217; occupations, what his relationship with his siblings are can all provide valuable information on how he views family life.
>Money may be a tough issue to bring up directly, but in your 100 questions to ask your boyfriend, you can approach the issue indirectly. Ask him how his parents viewed money, whether he would rather have a high paying job with low satisfaction or a low paying job with high satisfaction. Query him on his feelings toward charitable contributions. Ask whether he would rather have a lot of stuff or a full bank account.
>You can also ask him about his career. Ask him about his college major, his plans for graduate and professional school, his feelings on the relationship between education and getting a job. Ask what his favorite and least favorite jobs he8217;s ever held were. Ask him to tell you the job he has the most and the least respect for.
>Think about the future when you formulate the 100 questions to ask your boyfriend. For instance, how many children would he like to have? What is his approach to discipline? What kind of education 8211; public, private, or home school ; he sees his children having.
>You should also ask lifestyle questions. Where would he most like to travel? What one experience would he most like to have? Does he have an appreciation for any type of art? How often does he like to spend time with the guys? How much and how often does he drink?
>If you are serious about the guy, sexual issues should make up some of the 100 questions to ask your boyfriend. For instance, how many sexual partners has he had? Has he ever had a sexually transmitted disease? Does he believe in monogamy? How does he feel about porn? Are there any sex> acts that make him uncomfortable?
>The point of the 100 questions to ask your boyfriend is to open the dialogue in your relationship. As you begin to ask and answer these personal questions, you get a sense of whether this relationship is destined to work over the long run. That8217;s the value of the questions.
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8220;10 Keys To Becoming A Better Conversationalist8221;
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This is VERY important. A lot of guys email me and ask,8221;Marius, how can I become better at talking to people?8221; when they don8217;t even TALK to people.From now on, talk to ANYBODY. Not just girls, but ANYBODY. It will be one of the best* things you can do foryour love> life.
> >Have 8220;canned8221; stories that you can tell when you talk to people. If you don8217;t have any interesting stories to
tell, it8217;s a sign that you should log off the computer and go outinto the real world. (Hint: Anyone who goes out a lot must have a lot of stories to tell.)
3) Change Topics As Soon As One Become Boring
>Don8217;t try to beat on a dead horse and keep talking about a subject because it 8220;was8221; interesting at the beginning. As soon as your sense the energy drop, change the topic.
>4) Don8217;t Bore People With Question After Question
>Use the 8220;Assumption Technique8221; I taught you last time to disguise your questions. (If you don8217;t have it8230;you should
have saved all my emails!)
Very important. Hold your eye contact JUST a bit too long when you talk to her.
> >Never try to impress a woman or show off. You8217;re just going to come off as an insecure guy. And you know what happens to insecure guys!
>7) Avoid 8220;Tough8221; Topics
>Stay away from politics and religion. Chances are, you8217;ll never agree.
> >Show a TINY bit of vulnerability (such as a small secret or one little thing from your childhood) in order to establish an emotional connection. I always talk about the pet turtle I flushed down the toilet by accident when I was a kid.
> >The slower you speak, the more attention people will give you. (And the more confident you will sound.)
> >If you learn to APPRECIATE talking to people, you will be WAY AHEAD of most guys. Why? Because most people DREAD
talking to women. They see it as a 8220;task8221; they have to do in order to get girls.But guess what? Any time you treat something as a 8220;task8221; instead of something you ENJOY doing, you8217;ll really just wasting your time. As I say all the time, dating> should be FUN. If you8217;re not having fun, then you shouldn8217;t be dating>.
If you would like to learn all my secret 8220;dating> techniques8221; that would make dating> VERY fun for you, then you
should download my 8220;Smart Dating> Course8221; at:
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>>Things you need to Learn from Women Who8217;ve Dumped> You>
> >Often with the pain and heartbreak of a break up>, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the problem. Evaluate what went on so that you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.
>2: >Give women their personal space.
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Women like to cuddle and snuggle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their personal space too. Men have a tendency to be possessive. We want to keep tabs on where they’re going and what they’re doing there. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct becomes stronger. But, trust is a key component in a relationship. When you invade her personal space, you send the message that you don’t trust your girlfriend. This can easily lead to the end of the relationship.
3: >You get stronger over time.>
>When you wake up in the morning and the hurt’s so real, you may believe that you will never get over the break up>. But the truth is that not only does time heal all pain, but you will emerge from the break up> a stronger person. As philosopher Frederick Nietzsche said, “that which doesn’t kill me only makes me stronger.”
>4: >It’s okay if it wasn’t meant to be.>
>Coming to accept that a relationship wasn’t meant to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future – considering marriage>, thinking about children – and then the woman you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing. It is better to end a relationship that wasn’t meant to be earlier rather than later.
>5: >Good things don’t happen unless you make them happen.>
>Finally, the last lesson I want to share with you is that you can’t control what happened, but you can control to how you react to what happened. If you want good things to happen in the future, you have to make them happen.
>That means getting back on the horse. Go out, meet new women. Have some fun. Eventually, you will find another relationship. And, if you have followed the advice in this article , the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.
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