Ways to Avoid EX
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Do you know how to get back together with ex? There are a dozen theories about what works. These don’t. Unfortunately, these are the most common approaches people try. Each of these ways will ensure that you don’t get back together with ex.>
1. Send them a hundred text messages a day declaring your undying love>. It’s okay to have a moderate amount of contact (meaning one or two texts a day), but excessive texts – particularly of undying love> – make you needy. Think back to your single days. When a person who was crushing on you seemed particularly needy, were they attractive to you? Of course not! If you want to get back together with ex, don’t appear needy.>
2. Write them a long love> poem. Right now, they’re not feeling particularly loving toward you. A love> poem isn’t what they want to hear. In fact, it may embarrass them because it doesn’t mirror their feelings. So, try to figure out what they are feeling and respond in kind.>
3. Call late at night. During the day you can occupy yourself and you will find things to do to distract yourself from the inevitable hurt. But late at night, when you are alone with your thoughts, it seems almost impossible not to pick up the phone and call your ex. But these late night calls are distressing. They are emotional for both parties. If you want to get back together with ex, don’t strain your relationship by taxing their emotions late at night.>
4. Send roses to their work. Sometimes you feel like you need a big, dramatic gesture to make sure that they know that you love> them. Unfortunately, when other people observe these gestures, they embarrass your ex. So, don’t do them.>
5. Send them long, accusatory letters. If you’re hurting, it’s natural to want to lash out. But, the problem is that when you send a letter, you can never take it back. If you want to get back together with ex, don’t exasperate the problems in your relationship by sending something that you can never take back.>
6. Push to do a mutual exchange of property. You may want your college sweatshirt back, but don’t ask them to exchange it. Somehow doing a mutual exchange of goods puts a finality on a relationship.>
7. Move on too soon. Your ex may simply be wanting some space, even if they say they never want to see you again. Until you’re really ready to say goodbye to your ex, put a hold on the dating> scene. Once either of you gets really involved with another person, chances are you won’t get back together again.>
So, there are seven ways not to get back together with ex.
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